Give and Take in Christmas
So I know my calendar is not lying to me but really is it already December?? This year has really flown by which part of me is excited about because this year has had its up and downs, but I don’t want Christmas to fly by. This is my favorite time of the year and I’d really love it if it felt a little bit more like winter. Yesterday while cleaning the house I had to turn on the a.c. of course only in Texas!
Christmas time has always been my favorite with getting to decorate and the gift giving and all the holiday cheer in the air. This December though has a couple more exciting events on the calendar then I am used to! One of my best friends is getting married towards the end of December and I can not wait for it and I am sure neither can she. And another dear friend of mine actually got married today.
With all this wedding talk going on I began to think and wish I had all this time to think about all the small things and creative things. But when planning your wedding in about a month there was not much time for that.Her wedding today was beyond beautiful, she really had everything thought out and I am sure it was a lot of work but well worth it. I do have to say I was a little jealous that I didn’t get to have all this at my wedding but no matter what I did and did not have I had my best friend there, my future husband.
In life there is a give and take. With your wedding you have to deal with the give and take maybe your future husband rather have something else or it might not fit in the budget. And Christmas isn’t always about taking but also giving which sometimes I think many people need to remember, because it isn’t all about what you get but always about what you give to others. With-in this week I have had to realize that not everything is given to you and that there will be ups and downs. But no matter what if something is meant to be it is going to happen and it is all for the best.